Showing posts with label Please Help. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Please Help. Show all posts

Needing Your Love...




Some of you may remember last summer when I announced that Mrs. Joe's sister had a baby boy 7 weeks early and I asked you all to keep them in your thoughts and prayers. Heart- breakingly, Dakota passed on a month later.

TBear (Dakota's Mommy) was blessed with another pregnancy and yesterday she gave birth to a 10lb beautiful little boy. This little man was born 5 weeks early and is in stable condition, but does suffer from underdeveloped lungs. Currently he is at a special hospital receiving care, where his daddy and aunt are with him. Tbear is recovering at another hospital almost an hour away.

I am sure you can imagine how hard and scary this is for these new parents and their families. I wanted to ask you once more to keep them in your thoughts and prayers, and please take a moment to send love either here or on Mrs. Joe's page.

The help and love they received from everyone last year is what helped them through.

Have a Heart...




Valentines day is only a week away and some are anxiously awaiting a gift from a loved one, or waiting to give a gift to someone we love and for others it's just a fabricated holiday that should be overlooked. But regardless of what you think of valentines day, I hope you will help my kids make this one special.

Just in case you've never heard of it Jump Rope For Heart is a program ran by the American Heart Association to not only raise money but also inform kids about the dangers of Heart Disease and Stroke. The kids do different heart related activities at school, raise funds and then on Feb. 14th they spend the entire class "jump roping for hearts" :-) I know that since Alex began this program back in Kindergarten 4 years ago I have become more informed and found out things I never knew. Such as:

Isn't heart disease just heart disease, whether it's in a man or a woman?

Not necessarily. We have gaps in our knowledge about the prevention and treatment of heart disease in women. For one thing, women historically haven't been included in scientific research studies to the extent men have.

For example, we now know that just because a woman's arteries appear clear on an angiogram (a picture of the heart), it doesn't mean she's not at risk of heart disease. A study by the National Institutes of Health indicated as many as 3 million women previously diagnosed with healthy arteries could actually have an increased risk of heart attack after all.

This study, called the Women's Ischemia Syndrome Evaluation (WISE), found among other things that the gold standard test for assessing coronary artery disease — the coronary angiogram — may not spot the more diffuse buildup of plaques that often forms in the smaller coronary arteries of women's hearts.

Is heart disease something only older women should worry about?

No. While heart disease is the leading cause of death for women 65 and older, it's the third-leading cause of death for women 25 to 44 and second-leading cause of death for women 45 to 64. All women, of all ages, should take heart disease seriously.

I've heard something about the connection between depression and heart disease in women. What's that about?

Depression is twice as common in women as in men, and it increases the risk of heart disease by two to three times compared with those who aren't depressed. It's estimated that about one in five women who has a heart attack or is hospitalized with heart failure has evidence of depression. We need to better diagnose and address depression because depression makes it difficult to maintain a healthy lifestyle and follow recommended treatment.

Read more at Mayo Clincic..


I am at high risk, and honestly, if it wasn't for this program I never would have realized that at the age of (almost) 30, I am a candidate for heart disease or stroke!

Heart Disease not only affects women (and men) there are are also children who suffer from congenital and acquired heart diseases. In fact one of my favorite bloggers, has a son who suffers from Kawasaki Disease

Last year Alex raised $500 for Jump Rope for Heart, but this year the added competition of Liberty now being in school made him set his goal to $1000. And of course, in the spirit of good sibling rivalry Liberty has also made her goal $1000. I would love nothing more than to be able to help them reach their goals, and so I am asking for your help.

HERE is Alex's Page and HERE is Liberty's page. All of us would appreciate any help you can offer: reposting, passing on of this message or donations of any amount!

Thank you a million kisses and hugs as Alex and Liberty say!

Grab this button:


Hardest moment of my life...




Today was Dakota's funeral and although I had never met this little angel, it was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. To see such a tiny little casket surrounded by flowers and stuffed animals he would never get to cuddle with was beyond heart wrenching.

The hardest moment for me was listening to Tara cry. I know that although every person felt her pain in that moment, it was every parent who truly felt it to the center of their own soul. I can never forget the pain I heard or saw on her face. And I pray that I never have to see someone endure that again.

Tara's family and friends were there for her today and watching them support her amidst their own grief was very touching. I am so thankful that she had people there who loved and cared for her and will help her through these next days, weeks and months.

If tears were a measure of how much one baby means in this world then Dakota is definitely most treasured.






So far we have raised $177.61!!
Thank you to everyone who has donated so far!
Please remember..even $1 helps
cover medical bills and funeral costs.

I really love you all!
Very Teary xoxo's

A new little Angel...




A few weeks ago I shared with you the news of Dakota's early arrival into the world on July 6th.

It breaks my heart to let you all know that Saturday evening at 8:44 p.m., Dakota passed away in his mamma's arms. His heart had begun to fail and there was nothing more the doctors could do. Dakota put up a huge fight to stay in this world so that his Mamma had a chance to know him, even if only for those brief 4 weeks.

I have set up a PayPal donation and I ask that you help. She is a young and single mother. This was her first child. She was unemployed due to the complications of the pregnancy in the end. No mother should ever have to worry in the midst of grieving their child how they can afford the things that must be done. Please help, even if you can only spare the price of your favorite cup of coffee, it will still touch her heart.

I know this is hard to read and even harder to imagine as a mother. But the entire family needs your love and support right now.

Sometimes knowing the world is hugging you can help it seem less cruel.











So far we have raised $177.61!!
Thank you to everyone who has donated so far!
Please remember..even $1 helps
cover medical bills and funeral costs.

I really love you all!
Very Teary xoxo's

Please Keep Dakota in your Thoughts and Prayers...




Mrs. Joe's nephew was born 7 weeks early this past week.

Tomorrow the little guy faces his first heart surgery. I hope that you'll take a second to stop by and leave her and her family some encouragement and love. They expect him to be fine, but I know the fear and worry that they each must be feeling, as I'm sure any family would.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((Dakota, Dakota's Momma, Mrs. Joe and Family))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Wanted: Creative Juices








The past few weeks I've been on a 'creative juice' roll. I would go to post or do some other project and the ideas and plans just sprung up with no problem. Suddenly in the middle of last week that seemed to come to a screeching halt.

I'm not sure if my brain just overloaded in general or if it just shut down due to all the stuff going on around here, but I want it back. I need it back.

I have decided to start college this fall and am also looking to pursue my dreams of writing. Both of these goals require creativity, obviously.

So I want to ask for your help! I want you to post an idea, topic, or a few lines of dialog or story, that you'd like to see me write about. On Friday I will pick one (or you can tell me which is your favorite of the suggested) and on Monday I will post about it :)

Be as creative, funny, serious or whatever that you can! The more unique and interesting the more fun this will be :-D

Let's find out if I really do have any skills ;-)

**Updated** Anyone From The Florida Area, Please Help!






*************Update*************

I first want to say thank you to all those who showed their support and sent their good wishes. You're thoughts and prayers meant so much to us.

Joe has been located and his family and Molls spoke to him yesterday.
He is physically okay. I am still unsure as to all the details and happenings of the past few weeks, but I do know that he is safe. His father is on his way to Fl. right now to pick him up.

Again, thank you to all those who showed support.

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If anyone who read this blog is from (or knows someone from) Florida, specifically the Boynton Beach area, then I am asking you for help.

Sunday, Molly (my best friend), was told that one of our mutual friends has gone missing from the Boynton Beach area. His name is Joe Hardee and he was last seen on May 23rd. No one has seen or heard from his since. His voice mail box is full and also has not been checked since the 23rd.

His father was able to contact Cingular and they confirmed the last activity on the phone was the 23rd, but would not give him any more information or the last number called. According to Florida law, because he is not a minor and there is no reason to suspect any foul play or criminal activity (besides the fact that he, his dog and work truck have simply vanished), his father is not allowed to file a missing persons report.

I am asking you to take a look at this picture and pass a link to this post along to anyone you know from the area. Thank you so much for your help! We are all very very worried!


Name: Joseph Hardee (a.k.a : Joe or Joe Joe)
Age: 29
Last Seen: Boynton Beach, Fl
Also Missing: Draven; 6 yr. old, Pure bred, Brindle Pit Bull
Hometown: Marseilles, IL


****************UPDATE****************

5/30/07 - We found out today that someone saw him sleeping in his work truck on Thursday.
He was in the Hispanic district of the neighborhood, disoriented, crying, and confused.
Also, his cell phone has apparently been turned on, as it is now ringing and not going straight to voice mail. This is not much, still leaves a lot of questions, and he is still missing, but this is at least a glimmer of hope.