Showing posts with label Friends and Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friends and Family. Show all posts

What I wouldn't give for a System Reset Button




When your laptop, desktop, cell phone, i-pod or other electronic device goes bonkey it's usually easy to fix. You simply reset the system, either by powering the item off and then back on or actually hitting a system reset button.

Lately, I've really been wishing I came with one of these. A simple little power off or reset button that I could push to make my brain magically reboot and stop stressing all the time . I've tried to find it. I've searched my person high and low. Alas, I have come up with zilch, nada, nothing.

Sometimes a 20 minute nap will help. Sometimes a night out of the house for 'me' time helps. Sometimes it seems nothing will help. Today...is one of those days.

At 5:30 this morning I heard my phone ringing in an extremely loud and obnoxious way. Okay, so it was the normal ring tone but the time made it seem loud and obnoxious. Finally realizing it wasn't part of my dream I dragged myself out of bed to find the damn thing, with every intention of telling whoever was on the other end exactly what I thought of people who woke me up an hour before my loud obnoxious alarm was set to go off.

By the time I found my phone the person had stopped calling and had started calling P.C.'s phone. I didn't recognize the number but they had left me a voice mail message so I called to retrieve it. This is what I heard: "Brother, This is Skinny Minny. I wrecked the car. Call me back."

It was my sister-in-law and we had traded vehicles 3 days ago so we could do some errands with her truck. I walked into the bedroom, woke up P.C. and waited.

While trying to avoid a vehicle that had come into her lane she had lost control of the car. Thankfully she was okay, but very shook up. She had to start hitching to find a way to call us (she had lost her cell during the accident), was picked up by a pervert, made pervert let her out of car and then walked to someone's house and knocked. Somehow at this point the police were called as they thought Skinny Minny was trying to break into the house. They took her back to the car and called one of her friends to come and get her. At that point she was able to call us and tell us what happened. Thankfully, although very shaken and upset she was okay. And that is all that really matters.

The other side of my stress comes as we found out the car is D.O.N.E. The kind of deep fried done you buy on a stick at carnivals and county fairs. She rolled and is all sorts of smashed up, banged up and windows broke out. The whole nine yards you would expect from a vehicle being rolled.

So today we are trying to figure out what we will do, as we still owe $7,000 on the thing we haven't even owned for 6 months. Thank heavens tax return season is right around the corner and we will be able to hopefully purchase another vehicle. Until then we are stuck with the Hooptie ('85 Oldsmobile Cutlass) as a family vehicle and Skinny Minny's truck that she thankfully loaned us while we figure everything out. So everything will turn out in the end. But I can't seem to convince my brain of that and make it turn the hell off.

I am so thankful Skinny Minny is safe and so so very glad she was in our vehicle as it had a great safety rating. Maybe fate knew what was going to happen and had she been in her truck the turn out could have been horrific and tragic.

But when all is said and done...my brain would just really love a system reset.

**Updated** Anyone From The Florida Area, Please Help!






*************Update*************

I first want to say thank you to all those who showed their support and sent their good wishes. You're thoughts and prayers meant so much to us.

Joe has been located and his family and Molls spoke to him yesterday.
He is physically okay. I am still unsure as to all the details and happenings of the past few weeks, but I do know that he is safe. His father is on his way to Fl. right now to pick him up.

Again, thank you to all those who showed support.

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If anyone who read this blog is from (or knows someone from) Florida, specifically the Boynton Beach area, then I am asking you for help.

Sunday, Molly (my best friend), was told that one of our mutual friends has gone missing from the Boynton Beach area. His name is Joe Hardee and he was last seen on May 23rd. No one has seen or heard from his since. His voice mail box is full and also has not been checked since the 23rd.

His father was able to contact Cingular and they confirmed the last activity on the phone was the 23rd, but would not give him any more information or the last number called. According to Florida law, because he is not a minor and there is no reason to suspect any foul play or criminal activity (besides the fact that he, his dog and work truck have simply vanished), his father is not allowed to file a missing persons report.

I am asking you to take a look at this picture and pass a link to this post along to anyone you know from the area. Thank you so much for your help! We are all very very worried!


Name: Joseph Hardee (a.k.a : Joe or Joe Joe)
Age: 29
Last Seen: Boynton Beach, Fl
Also Missing: Draven; 6 yr. old, Pure bred, Brindle Pit Bull
Hometown: Marseilles, IL


****************UPDATE****************

5/30/07 - We found out today that someone saw him sleeping in his work truck on Thursday.
He was in the Hispanic district of the neighborhood, disoriented, crying, and confused.
Also, his cell phone has apparently been turned on, as it is now ringing and not going straight to voice mail. This is not much, still leaves a lot of questions, and he is still missing, but this is at least a glimmer of hope.

I love you Moll Doll

Molls and I have been best friends for 15 years (minus two years in our late teens/early twenties when we weren't speaking but missed each other desperatly).

We met when she was a freshman and I was a sophomore in highschool (She tried stealing my boyfriend (okay..so she didn't even know about me)...wish I would have let her have him now!), and we've been inseperable ever since.


She loves me. And I love her. We often joke that we are just like boyfriend/girlfriend with out the sex stuff. Almost never in 15 years have we gotten off the phone with each other without saying 'I love you'. And tonight...tonight I am so
thankful for that.

She called me
earlier, just like we do every night, only this time it was different. She had nearly died.

The weather here is horrendous and gearing up to be worse and on her way home from Reffing a game she hit an icy patch on an interstate bridge, spun a few times and ended up facing the wrong way with a semi heading straight for her. By some amazing miracle the semi maneuvered around her and her car stopped almost two inches from the guard rail. Some how She was safe. And, just for honorable mention, so was her car. (When she mentioned this to me I said rather loudly and not so PG rated: 'Frack the car...I'm just glad you're okay!)

I honestly can not tell you what I would have done if anything had
happened to her. A huge piece of me would have been shattered forever. She has been
more than a sister to me for as long as I can remember. I have shared ever detail of my life with her and always been honest with her about who I am. And she's never once held that against me..good or bad. When she called me tonight she said how glad she was that we always say 'I love you' when we get off the phone.

So I just wanted to remind you...Make sure the people you truly love don't just know it...make sure they hear it.